Dadmissions: The Barely

My daughters coined their own term recently.. the “barely“. It was born out of video games on the IPad when one kid would get a turn to play but would get “out” almost immediately. They’d shout, “Hey, that was a “barely”, as in they barely got a turn at all. Saying it’s a “barely” is grounds for a do-over. The “barely” means it went by in a flash, with little time at all, and it’s no fair, sometimes said in the whiniest, saddest little voice.

The more I’ve thought about the term they coined, the more I’ve realized that “the barely” is a perfect analogy for our time raising kids. From the time they first cry out in the delivery room the clock is ticking with milestone after milestone after milestone. They barely settle in to just one aspect of childhood before they’re on to the next one. They’re barely crawling when they’re already taking their first steps. They’re barely speaking when they start to utter their first sentences. They’re barely through kindergarten when it seems like elementary school has already flown by in a flash.

So here I am. Dad. I’m standing here before you, and I am humbly declaring my own barely. It’s all going by too fast. It’s no fair, and yes I am saying that in the whiniest, saddest voice possible. We barely got to watch little glimpses of your growing up and sometimes it feels it’s slipping by too quick. So I made my own list of barelys for you:

The kids barely ask me to sing them to sleep anymore, so when they do, I will cherish it

The kids barely need my help tying shoes anymore, so when they do, I will jump to it

The kids barely want to hold hands in public anymore, so when they do, I will clutch that hand tight hoping they can feel the love from the palm of my hand to theirs

The kids barely need the comfort of mom and dad’s bed at night anymore, so when they run and jump in, I will embrace it and share the covers, and snuggle tight

The kids are barely little kids at all anymore, I’ll never forget our time with them as little kids.
Too bad there’s no do-overs…

Their next chapter is already beginning…

What are your barelys… Find me on Facebook at dadmissionsthebook


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6 Responses to Dadmissions: The Barely

  1. it all goes too fast. we’ve got to eat it all up while we can.

  2. kathyradigan says:

    It really does go way too fast!!! I ‘m right there with you, I have a bad case of the barely’s too! Beautiful post!

  3. Bell On Heels says:

    My goodness way to make me tear up in the middle of the day! Very sweet post.

  4. Could not have said it better… I’m a dad of two girls 8 and almost 5… Time flies…

  5. Wonderful post and as the mother of grown children I know it is all too true. Don’t fear it tho. Don’t worry tho. Your heart will feel like a rock in your chest as you watch them soar away on the wings you have given them but you will be happy because you know you also gave them roots and they will be back. One day all too soon they will come back with the greatest gift any parent could ever receive. Grandchildren. Our reward for all of the work and the worry. If you think you can’t love anyone or anything more than your children, then you are in for a delightful surprise.

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