Dadmissions: Winnie The Pooh Nearly Killed Me

There I was in the back of the ambulance with lights and siren on and a team of medical guys standing above me as they rushed me off to the emergency room. I remember wincing when I saw the warm stream of blood from my own arm spurting up and hitting their masks. I know, it’s probably not the way you expected a funny parenting book to start. I distinctly remember being scared and concerned and thinking, “Holy crap I really messed things up this time”. I asked if I was going to lose my hand. The EMT’s said they’d do everything they could. And they asked me just what happened. And I told them. It hit me in the back of an ambulance on an ordinary summer afternoon when I should have been sitting down to the dinner table instead of laying in a hospital gurney, the summation of my life with two little kids up until that very point. I can boil it all down into one sentence: Winnie the Pooh nearly killed me.  

I know it may seem far-fetched but I have the jagged scar up and down my arm to prove it.  Winnie the Pooh landed me in an ambulance, in a hospital and in a frantic race to save my hand. Needless to say, I hate Winnie the Pooh.  He was a cute, square, porcelain piggy bank.  Each day I’d come home from work and pull out my pocket change from the day- I still do.  It was a tradition for little Alicia and myself and now a tradition for me, Alicia and little Andreya. I’d come home from work, we’d lay out the money, and put it in the piggy bank for college.  It might be fifty cents or a dollar, whatever it was, I had convinced myself it could be the girls’ college future.  Alicia was still learning words when she could already point out George Washington on a dollar bill or Abraham Lincoln on a five. It was our little bonding moment with the piggy bank.  

That July evening, when the sun was still up and the heat of summer was still cooking, I came home from work at 6:30 and laid out that money with Alicia on the plush white carpet of our little postage stamp-sized house.  We had Winnie the porcelain piggy bank on the floor also.  Alicia carefully put the first two coins in the bank.  I then reached across the floor, leaning my right hand on the bank to grab the other coins when I felt the most incredible jolt of pain ever. Immediately I’m yelling for my wife Gloria to call 911.  Alicia is crying. I’m bleeding all over the house.  Gloria is the only one who’s calm. Andreya is still strapped into the high chair crying as she watches. And murderous Winnie is laying on the floor, shattered in pieces. Winnie the Pooh literally tore through my arm- cutting through the tendon, a major artery, and the nerves, and leading me on a six month adventure of surgery, rehab, and retraining, to learn how to write again.  I was rushed by ambulance to the hospital, shooting blood at the EMTs… and all along trying to keep conscious while I explained how Winnie the Pooh had done this to me.  And yes, I actually had a moment when I told EMTs I didn’t want to die. 

Doctors saved my hand but not all the feeling in it.  I went through weeks of not being able to lift Alicia and the baby Andreya, not being able to hug them because I had a Frankenstein cast on my hand.  I went through wild hand treatments where my arm was dipped in hot wax, or zapped with electricity to get the nerve and feeling back. All the while, I had to explain to the hand therapist and others how it was Winnie the Pooh who had done this to me.  I couldn’t button pants or tie shoes or do diapers.  For a while I wrote with my left hand, I relearned how to write with my right.    

Three years later, the scar is still fresh up my arm, and around my wrist, and up the palm of my hand where Winnie shattered.  I type with the tip of my index finger, can’t hold a coffee mug in my right hand, and will often randomly drop things, because I still don’t have all the feeling back.  I went through two years of battles with the insurance company over treatments, costs, and premiums, all the while trying to explain how Winnie the Pooh did this to me.  

We could never fully clean the blood up, and even months later would find little spatter spots around the house like we were living in some episode of CSI.  We eventually moved out. Needless to say, the girls have never had another porcelain piggy bank.
  
The entire episode got me to thinking about the scars in our lives. Just how many moms and dads have their own parenthood scars- whether it be trying to put together 50 pages of instructions for an IKEA bed and skinning your knuckles so bad you cry, or getting run over by your girls’ out of control princess bicycle, or getting clawed by the family dog that the kids talked you into adopting.  The scars, both physical and emotional, define our time as parents just as much as those little marks we etch onto our kids’ walls to keep track of just how tall they’ve gotten.
 
I learned a few of very valuable lessons from the entire experience.   #1 Saving for college could kill you. #2 Being a parent is a tough job. It just is. #3 You need to be able to sit back and laugh at it all. Sometimes it’s the only way to deal. Dadmissions.

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